I want to tell her these next few days will be a blur.
I want her to know that she’ll get everything done that is required of a woman who will now check the box that says “widow” instead of “married.” Her family will help her make the right choices, sign the right papers, plan the final details around a funeral that was supposed to happen much later, not now. It’s not natural to bury a husband who was only 8 months in to his 60th year of life.
CANCER…the life changer.
The word ‘widow’ won’t mean much to you now, but you will feel different immediately. I want you to know that odd feeling won’t go away any time soon. You’ll be able to function in the world but your world is forever changed.
Read some of the books about grief. Don’t listen to anyone who says you’ll be better in a year. There is no time table on grief and getting back to ‘normal’ is a non-starter. The old normal ended on diagnosis day when you listened to the doctor tell the man you loved, “You have cancer.”
You will make your new normal with every waking day.
Take your time. You have time now. There will be OK days and some not OK. Ease into this new life.
Above all, I want you to know, you will make it.
March 19, 2016 @ 5:52 am
In a few short months it will be seven years that I lost half of myself. That is the only way I can explain the feeling. You do learn to cope……..you don’t have a choice. As Laurie said there are OK days and some not OK. But, we do survive…………Still Lifting !!!
April 22, 2016 @ 9:08 am
Je me retrouve dans beaucoup de tes points ! peut-être parce que nous avons presque le même âge… Par contre j'aime être seule mais pas trop loin de chez moi, je suis limite agoraphobe mais je me fous de sacrés coups de pied dans le deeÃor¨rr.Bin week end à toi aussi.
April 28, 2016 @ 9:14 pm
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April 28, 2016 @ 9:33 pm
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April 30, 2016 @ 9:14 pm
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July 15, 2016 @ 5:55 am
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October 13, 2016 @ 8:39 pm
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January 7, 2017 @ 10:42 pm
Joanna – Very Cute Theresa, Thankyou again for taking the time to do our photos! You don’t know how great it is to have these done. Owen changes every day and I will never get these moments back so to me these pictures are priceless! I look forward to seeing the rest of them. This is the best mother’s day gift to myself!!!
February 11, 2017 @ 10:36 am
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March 18, 2016 @ 4:23 am
In the beginning you feel like you just can’t stand the pain of loss but in time you learn to cope. A difficult path for sure and it is so hard to read words like this that tell you time will ease some of the pain. Your mind and heart can’t imagine how such sadness will diminish.
March 16, 2016 @ 9:53 am
Yes, your life will never be the same, but it can (and will) be good again. Just different!